Oh jeez, oh man. A friend asked me (in public) if I'd ever visited a dungeon. We were NOT talking about the same thing.
I got aftercare 🥰😍🤩
Nothing makes me turn a True Crime off faster than saying bdsm fetishes is a sign of a serial killer.
My Dom safe-worded yesterday...
She used her safe word. I didn't like it.
So LITERALLY after telling a "dom" that penetrative sex was a limit of mine, they suggested they could "do it anyway" since I wouldn't have a choice once the restraints are on
I wish gentle maledom was more of a thing
I'm an officer and I went into Subspace today at work.
Shout out again for bdsm for saving my life. FONDLE👏YOUR👏SUBS👏DAILY👏IN👏THE👏NAME👏OF👏HEALTH👏
Odd Aftercare Request
Bruh one of my coworkers has a bdsm collar that she wears to work and nobody but me understands what she is wearing.
What is this kink?
I now see why doms need aftercare
Being a brat led to the best sex ever
'Medical kink store donates scrubs to hospital in need' (UK)
To Fetlife dudes messaging domme-identifying ladies to insist we are actually totally switches/subs and just waiting for their majestic cocks to prove it: you are pathetic.
I pretended to be art for my dom boyfriend and it's one of the best evenings I had.
I've been dabbling in BDSM for a few years, but I didn't realize until just now that my parents were the first people to teach me about safewords.
106 days ago my bf/Dom fucked upppppp and wrote here asking for advice. Tons of people said if I stayed with him, I should come here and update. Well, here's the update...
Welp we just spent the night playing Dungeons and Dragons with friends because they misunderstood my husband and I when we said "We do enjoy a bit of fantasy role-playing"
Relationship goal Morticia and Gomez not Joker and Harley.
Doms need to earn the trust of subs before the sub submits.
My Master's Christmas gift to me!
Kinkshaming in this family of subreddits
a stanger attached a leash to my collar in public transport
I was his dom all along without even realizing it
Welp thanks to bdsm, My Sir (husband) found a cancer scare inside my testicles. Doc called today saying I have a NON-cancer cyst inside my testicle. Fondle your sub a little extra tonight because it might save a life.
Newbie Subs, I promise you don't want that Dom mentor
My dom called me a good girl at the doctor's office
Being kinky in public
It's been almost 2 weeks since it happened but I need to vent. Went to my first party with my BF(we usually dont use sub or dom titles), and it was awful.
I just safeworded for the first time as a dom
I found out that my dominant fwb won't be kinky with his wife because he "respects her too much" (open marriage) and I feel weird about what that implies about me. Am I crazy?
I just wanted to share this success story because I'm proud of my sub.
Is it wrong of me?
Unpopular opinion: aftercare
My boyfriend has become a sub and I'm his new Domme. I AM OVER THE MOON!
Check Your Locks Beforehand 🔒🔐🔓 How my Dom’s tendency towards precaution halted a scene but saved my neck (literally)
I just got to live one of my biggest fantasies.
Apperently, i am not a Dom
Are kink people just nerds with a different subject matter?
A lot of the self-described "doms" are actually sociopaths or narcissists in disguise
Keep your "pill" philosophies out of here
This guy called me a slut and told me it’s an automatic pet name in the bdsm community and I disagree (ADVICE)
My boyfriend leaned on my bdsm kinks to get me to embrace my body and address my body issues.
Getting real tired of seeing the sentiment that women who enjoy BDSM are “damaged” or have been abused in some way
My sub got raped this week - coming over tonight - I’m not sure healthiest way to be supportive of her
Something happened at my new job that turned me on, and I totally didn’t expect it.
Ok this is a little weird.
Almost called a professor "Mistress" today
My Master is training a puppy while visiting family and I’m having a hard time controlling myself.
Rant: being kinky doesn't disqualify me from being a good parent
Tired of seeing this whole "prove to me you're worthy of my time" bullshit on Fet.
The fact that this sub's upvote and downvote icons are butt plugs is brilliant
Let's talk about the fact that 25% of users in the last post about consent don't understand consent
Security Cam fun! (and removal of privacy for my sub) Sooo cute!!!
If she only knew...
A moment of panic